Lube 101: the best lubricants for every type of play

Lube 101: the best lubricants for every type of play

When it comes to pleasure, the right lubricant can make all the difference. Whether you're flying solo, playing with a partner, or adding a toy into the mix, choosing the perfect lube can enhance comfort, increase sensation, and keep everything smooth (literally). But with so many options—water-based, silicone, hybrid, flavored, organic and plenty more—it can be hard to know which one to grab.

Don’t worry—we’ve got you covered. In this guide, we’ll break down the different types of lubricants, their pros and cons, and how to pick the best one for your playtime.

Why use lube?

Before we dive into the types, let’s talk about why lubricant is a game-changer. Lube isn’t just for when things get dry— it’s for better, smoother, and more pleasurable experiences overall. It helps reduce friction, prevents discomfort, and can even intensify sensations. Plus, some lubes come with special features like warming, cooling, or tingling effects for extra fun.

Types of lubricants & when to use them

Water-based lube: the All-Rounder

Best for: Vaginal sex, sex toys, and use with condoms

Water-based lubricants are the most versatile and widely used. They’re compatible with latex condoms, silicone sex toys, and safe for all body parts. They’re easy to clean and won’t stain sheets. However, they tend to dry out faster than other lubes, so you might need to reapply.

Pros:

  • Safe for all types of play
  • Easy to wash off
  • Works with all sex toys and condoms

Cons:

  • Can dry out and require reapplication
  • Some contain glycerin, which can cause irritation for sensitive individuals

Regal Kitty offers a large choice of water-based lubricants but we all need a favourite, so without further ado: 

👉 Our Pick: The Pjur Woman Aloe water-based lubricant has to be one of our favourite. Without glycerin, parabens or preservatives, it contains aloe vera. This lube is designed for women´s pH balance and is long-lasting! It is available in larger container of 100ml too.

Silicone-based lube: the long-lasting option

Best for: Shower play, anal sex, and long sessions

Silicone lube is ultra-slick, long-lasting, and waterproof, making it ideal for shower play or activities where you don’t want to stop and reapply. However, it’s NOT compatible with silicone sex toys (it can break them down over time), and it can be harder to wash off.

Pros:

  • Super smooth and long-lasting
  • Waterproof (great for shower fun!)
  • Ideal for anal play (less reapplication needed)

Cons:

  • Cannot be used with silicone toys
  • Requires soap and water to clean off

Regal Kitty offers a large choice of silicone-based lubricants but we all need a favourite, don´t we?

👉 Our Pick:  The ID Millenium - silicone-based lubricant stands out sfor its ultra-long-lasting, smooth, and non-sticky silicone-based formula that remains slippery even underwater, offering exceptional versatility for various intimate experiences. Its high-quality silicone ensures a lasting, enjoyable sensation without leaving residue, making it ideal for both solo and partner play. It comes in tubes from 30ml to 500ml

Oil-based lube: the natural choice

Best for: Massage play, solo play, and those avoiding synthetic ingredients

Oil-based lubes (like coconut oil) can feel amazing and double as massage oils, but they come with a major drawback: they break down latex condoms. That means they’re not safe for use with condoms but are great for solo play or long, intimate massages.

Pros:

  • Long-lasting and natural
  • Doubles as a massage oil
  • Great for skin hydration

Cons:

  • NOT safe with latex condoms
  • Can be messy and hard to wash out of sheets

Regal Kitty offers a selection of oil-based lubricants but we all need a favourite, don´t we?

👉 Our top choice: The Intimateline - Tantras Love Oil White Musk is a luxurious massage oil infused with pheromone fragrance to enhance intimacy and awaken the senses. Its exclusive blend of high-quality oils and rare essential extracts creates a sensual, stimulating experience that promotes relaxation and well-being. And it is dermatologically tested!

Hybrid lube: the best of both worlds

Best for: Those who want longevity without the mess

Hybrid lubes combine water and silicone, offering the best of both worlds—long-lasting slickness without the sticky feeling. They’re safe for most toys (except porous silicone ones) and provide a silky-smooth feel.

Pros:

  • Lasts longer than water-based lube
  • Less sticky than silicone lube
  • Toy and condom-friendly (mostly!)

Cons:

  • Can still be tricky to wash off
  • Some contain added ingredients that may irritate sensitive skin

We have a selection of hybrid lubes available on Regal Kitty, but we are going to share with you our best-kept secret

👉 Best Pick: The ID Silk - Natural Feel silicone/water lube is our recommendation. It comes in different sizes. It combines the best features of water-based and silicone lubricants, offering a smooth, natural feel with long-lasting slip and no tackiness. Its unique formula includes hydrolyzed silk (yes silk!!!) for added moisture retention, leaving skin soft and smooth. Compatible with latex, non-staining, and easy to clean: what else do you need?

Bonus: Specialty Lubes to Try!

Want to spice things up? Check out these fun variations:

How to Choose the Right Lube for You

When picking a lube, go through a checklist and ask yourself: 

✅ Are you using toys? Stick to water-based.
✅ Do you need long-lasting glide? Go for silicone.
✅ Do you use condoms? Avoid oil-based.
✅ Do you have sensitive skin? Look for organic or hypoallergenic options.

Lube is an essential part of any pleasure-filled experience, making everything smoother, safer, and more enjoyable. Whether you're a first-time user or a seasoned pro, finding the right lubricant will take your intimate moments to the next level.

Ready to enhance your playtime?  Explore Regal Kitty’s full range of premium lubricants here! 💖

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